Real Talk From Real Women: Women At War

This is a topic that really hits home for me. You want to know what I am tired of seeing is women at war. Why are women constantly at each other throats about something? If it isn't one thing then it is another. Majority of the times it is not even worth it, just straight petty. It is normally something that is best left alone. Somebody taking somebody's man, what her shoes or outfit look like, he say she say, or straight jealousy. There are a lot of women out there that need to learn how to come together. Don't worry about the next woman and what she has. Don't worry about if you think she is prettier or not. Don't worry if she looks like the dustiest woman on earth. Don't worry about how many kids she has. Don't worry about whether her child's HEAD is combed. Pure stupidity! Worry about yourself and what you have going on. People worrying about other people is the prime reason why we go at the rate we do now.


We are supposed to stick together no matter what race, age, creed, or nationality....

When people become divided they fall...

We need to learn how to find a common ground, apologize, and move on....


This may be hard for a lot of us because we feel as if we are never wrong, or maybe the other person started it. Heck, some people you just can't please they don't want peace in their lives. Sometimes you just have to learn to be the bigger. As a result of being and acting like the bigger person. You will also look like the bigger person. So even if you feel wronged, and feel like you should not have apologized, in other people eyes you will look the most mature.



Words can tear you down or they can build you up...

We all know this to be true, but the reality of it is that some of us just have thicker skin than others. Some women don't know how to take criticism, while others can. They learn to accept it for what it's worth, and keep moving. Others decide to get in their feelings, and that's where the war starts. You never know who you are talking to, and what their mental state may be period, or just for that present moment. That person you decide to point and laugh at, or post a picture of with a nasty comment, or cyber bully could be at their ropes end. Literally. Honestly, it is way past the point of out of hand. So please think about this the next time you decide to bang words out on your keyboard behind your computer screen in Minnesota to the woman in Texas.