Everybody gets to that point in some time or another in their lives where they stop believing in love. Just because she cheated, or he walked away prematurely because he was not ready does not mean that you should not believe in love. Some people just go looking for love in all the wrong places, and in return they receive the back end of someone else's pain. It just seems like the same old song.
Oh look I met a new guy, wait he's already taken..Bummer!
Or...
I met a new guy. He lied and cheated. So now I have to mourn my lost and bad luck by crying my eyes out while eating huge tubs of ice cream and watching Friends rerun.
NO....
Build some confidence and self esteem, get back out there and don't be a quitter.
Because guess what! If you quit, you won't ever find that special someone.
I'm not saying put your heart on the line every single time. I know that you have that fear of being hurt and betrayed again. Nobody wants to constantly start over to get the same results. Get out there mingle, meet new people, date, and have some fun. But keep yourself on lock until you see the person display a mutual interest that seems sincere. If not do not be the first one to make the move. See what he/she is looking for in a relationship before you decide to leave yourself out hanging like a pinata. So even if you start feeling like you should not believe in love, stop it because you have to let go of your past. If you do not let go of it, you will never move on. You will be stuck in the same old relationship over and over. Just because you are trying to stop believing in love does not mean that it has forgot about you!
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